by Keimara Amos
Merrily We Go to Hell (1932) Depicts the complex and often bleak portrayal of marriage. Arzner tells a story of the characters Jerry (Fredric March) and Joan (Sylvie Sidney), and their toxic dynamic, through Jerry’s actions as a husband. His alcoholism, infidelity, and emotional neglect highlight the film’s cynical take on marriage, an institution where women are expected to endure the weight of male dominance. Jerry’s failures are the key to the film’s exploration of marital dissatisfaction. Although he seems doting and caring, Jerry remains self-destructive and emotionally unavailable, while prioritizing his ex-lover Claire Hempstead and his addiction. Jerry’s character represents men at the time on a broader scale serving as a metaphor for the acceptance of male irresponsibility within marriage. March’s ability to capture the feeling of indecisiveness, according to Judith Mayne, author of Directed by Dorothy Arzner (1994), is what makes his character Jerry to be described as “infuriating” yet “sympathetic.” For women characters in the 1930s Arzner does an excellent job not allowing Joan to be a mere victim of Jerry’s Failures. She decided to portray Joan as emotionally resilient, choosing to take her pain and use what she knew to remain graceful, vulnerable, while showing strength. At first Joan Compartmentalize her pain by tolerating Jerry’s behavior and went full force housewife, she was hopeful her actions could persuade her husband to stay on the right track. After Jerry’s drunken stupors and finding out he was having an affair, Joan tried to get some of her power back, she decided that if Jerry could have an affair, she could too. Showing her character’s resilience, especially when she finally decides to leave Jerry after realizing that he could not be fixed. Joan’s decision to walk away from Jerry was a huge shift in her character’s development, there was a shift from a woman who was passive to one who gained clarity. Mayne also reflects on Arzner’s close-up scenes with Sylvia Sidney revealing her expressive characteristics portraying the emotions of Joan. It’s Sidney’s artistry that brings Joan alive, giving her the characteristics of someone empathetic, compassionate, patient, and able to put herself first when needed.
The film’s ending was made to be deliberately ambiguous, raising questions about whether it is truly a “happy ending.” The film concludes with Jerry’s teary-eyed declaration of love to Joan, this ending is far from joyful. Arzner leaves the possibility that their future together may still be met with uncertainty and failures. The film challenges the traditional “happy ending” in marriage. It asks the audience to sit and consider the difficulties of marriage, where love and pain co-exist, and where a “happy ending” may be about compromise and struggle. The ending might provoke disagreements, especially in a modern society where women’s autonomy and independence are valued more. Joan’s willingness to forgive might be seen as self-cruelty, blaming her for her issues in her life. Some viewers may find her acceptance of Jerry’s apology weak, and some may find it strong. At the end, the film never fully accepts nor rejects the idea of marital bliss.
Arzner’s Merrily We Go to Hell, reflects on Joan’s journey, displays, and critiques societal expectations and women’s roles within marriage in the early 1930’s. At the time women were often expected to uphold the institution of marriage through acceptance, patience, and sacrifice even when faced with infidelity and neglect. Joan’s trajectory in the film mirrors these exact expectations, as she endures her husband’s alcoholism, infidelity, and emotional neglect while trying to salvage the marriage. It highlights the pressure placed on women to “save” their marriages at any cost, compromising their own desires and emotional well-being to preserve marital bond. Even filmed in the 1930’s, Joan’s character can be seen as relevant to discussions surrounding marriage today and gender roles within marriage. Today, women’s expectations in marriage have changed in many ways, with an emphasis on equality and mutual respect. However, we do not live in a perfect world, so Joan’s journey still represents a lot of women’s reality in married life. Some women today still must tend to their husband’s needs before their selves, connecting to the ongoing emotional labor Joan experienced. The film’s portrayal of her attempts to keep the marriage together by condoning Jerry’s behavior and adapting to his desires resonates with modern discussions about how women are expected to take on the emotional burden in relationships, managing their partners needs while also managing their own. Arzner provides a difficult and layered exploration of women’s roles in marriage that reflects marital expectations during the early 1930’s and today.
Dorothy Arzner’s significance as a pioneering female director in Hollywood cannot be overstated. She was one of the few women directors during the early decades of Hollywood. Her Career is a testament to her resilience and artistic vision in an industry dominated by men. Arzner faced many challenges as woman director; after leaving paramount she didn’t direct many films, leaving her to end her career in 1943. In Merrily We Go to Hell, Arzner critiques the expectations placed on women to be self-sacrificing, patient, and forgiving. The film can also reflect on her own struggle to assert herself in male dominant field, it took her to threaten to leave for Paramount to give her a chance.
Works Cited
Mayne, Judith. “Merrily We Go to Hell: Gingerbread, Cake, and Crème de Menthe.” The Criterion Collection, 11 May 2021, www.criterion.com/current/posts/7384-merrily-we-go-to-hell-gingerbread-cake-and-creme-de-menthe.




Throughout the essay i have come to many agreements with Amos. Marriage is concept that is taken in many ways throughout many cultures and religions. I agree that there are some that face difficult situations in their marriage. in today’s world i believe that everything has gone to extremes. It is seen through media, technology, and even everyday living. Compared to 1930, there are many changes given the time period. Arzner gives us a woman in a tough situation that many can relate to, even if it’s to marriage itself, yet there are things that are toxic like the husband in this film. Like Amos stated, “it highlights the pressure placed on women to “save” their marriages at any cost, compromising their own desires and emotional well-being to preserve marital bond.” there are many sacrifices that one need to make to make things work, including ones well-being. This is a beautiful essay that dissects the film and states the issues in society, marriage and personal desires.
I agree with Keimara that the movie Merrily We Go to Hell, does display how Joan and Jerry do have a bit of a struggle in their marriage and how Joan is a strong woman to deal with the difficulties in her marriage. I think that the director Dorothy Arzner directed this movie to show how real women existed during 1932. It was an important time for women in 1932. Women moved from having primarily domestic roles to being active members of society. They gained employment outside of the household and were often responsible for their families’ survival. So I agree with Keimara when she writes that Arzner asks the audience to sit and consider the difficulties of marriage, where love and pain co-exist, and where a “happy ending” may be about compromise and struggle.
In the article by Judith Mayne, “Merrily We Go to Hell: Gingerbread, Cake, and Crème de Menthe”, Judith mentions,
“Joan’s story is told most forcefully in close-ups that reveal Sidney’s most striking characteristic: her expressive face, in which sadness and joy are visible at the same time. She tries desperately to grow into her new role as wife to an unstable man.” Keimara has captured this in her article, by stating The film’s portrayal of her attempts to keep the marriage together by condoning Jerry’s behavior and adapting to his desires resonates with modern discussions about how women are expected to take on the emotional burden in relationships, managing their partners needs while also managing their own. This was a style of filming that Arzner used in the movie during a time when women in general were conveyed as only homemakers and in a domestic role.
I really enjoyed your clear and concise thoughts on Merrily We Go To Hell. I think you verbalized exactly what I was thinking which is that the ending is surprisingly modernist. It neither casts the fate of their marriage as doomed or ultimately successful but that simply it goes on. It is sad to think that the reality may have very well been that nothing changed and I think Arzner successfully executed a truly thought provoking piece for the time. I would also like to point out that this film was released during the Depression which may indeed explain the seemingly hopeful ending but to those with a discerning eye, as you put, it is anything but. Bravo!
Your insights into Merrily We Go to Hell really resonate. The film not only critiques the societal expectations placed on women—such as being self-sacrificing and forgiving—but also reflects Arzner’s own battles in asserting herself as a director. I also like your point about her need to threaten to leave Paramount to gain recognition. That action underscores the struggle women faced to be taken seriously in the industry.
This blog provides an insightful analysis of Merrily We Go to Hell (1932), skillfully highlighting the complexities of marriage as portrayed through Jerry and Joan’s tumultuous relationship. The breakdown of Jerry’s destructive behavior and Joan’s resilience speaks volumes about the gender expectations of the time, with Dorothy Arzner’s direction offering a sharp critique of women’s roles within marriage. The blog does a great job connecting the film’s themes to both the societal norms of the 1930s and today’s conversations around emotional labor and autonomy in relationships, showcasing the film’s lasting relevance.